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The Gaslighting of Entry-Level IT: It’s Not You, It’s the System

Today, we’re calling out one of the most insidious issues in IT: the quiet, constant gaslighting of entry-level workers. These aren’t people who are unqualified or lazy—they’re thrown into chaos and then blamed for not knowing how to survive it. It's time we stop pretending this is a “you” problem and call it what it really is: a system failure disguised as individual incompetence.

Feeling like a failure, when it is not your fault
Feeling like a failure, when it is not your fault

The Entry-Level Experience: Welcome to the Deep End

Landing your first IT job should feel like a win. For many, it quickly turns into a waking nightmare. You're eager, capable, and ready to learn—until you're handed an ancient manual no one's read since Windows XP, and your manager shrugs, “Just Google it if you’re stuck.”


There’s no structured onboarding. No clear process. Maybe you get a buddy. More likely, you're left fumbling through tools no one understands, patching together fixes for broken systems while trying not to look lost.


And then comes the kicker: you’re expected to perform like a pro on day one.

You’re asked to update a system you don’t have access to, follow a protocol that contradicts itself, or handle a fire drill with no extinguisher in sight. Ask for help, and you're met with indifference—or worse, a condescending “You should know this.”


Let’s Be Clear: It’s Not the New Hires—It’s the Garbage Infrastructure

This is not about entry-level workers failing to rise to the occasion. It’s about disorganized, outdated, and neglected systems setting people up to fail.


Most IT environments are held together with duct tape and denial. Legacy software nobody remembers how to configure. Documentation that's either missing, obsolete, or written in vague riddles. Tribal knowledge hoarded by a handful of veterans who don’t have time to train others.


New hires aren’t confused because they lack intelligence—they’re confused because the whole environment is a mess, and no one wants to admit it.


The Psychological Fallout: Gaslight, Burnout, Repeat

The burnout is real

When you're constantly told to “figure it out,” but the tools and support just aren’t there, you begin to believe the problem is you. That’s gaslighting, plain and simple.


Imposter syndrome sets in fast. You start second-guessing yourself, hesitating to speak up, staying late to quietly fix what you were never trained to do. And when burnout hits, it's not just exhaustion—it’s shame. It’s the fear that you’re not cut out for this, even though you were never given a fair shot.


Real Stories, Real Damage: The Cold Hard Facts

Access Denied, Accountability Missing

You get handed a critical issue to resolve—but the first problem hits you before you even start: no access. Permissions weren’t transferred by the last technician, and no one thought to update them. You’re locked out of the very systems you need to fix. When you raise this, the response is either silence or blame for “not solving it faster.” Accountability is nowhere to be found.


Documentation? More Like a Time Capsule

The only “help” you find is a dusty Word document last updated in 2013, filled with jargon nobody uses anymore. It doesn’t reflect the current environment, leaving you to guess your way through. Relying on outdated docs turns troubleshooting into a game of chance — and that’s not how professional IT should work.


“Just Fix It”—The Invisible Threat

Your manager demands a fix without offering resources, guidance, or support. “Just fix it. You’re in IT, right?” This phrase is a blunt weapon disguised as leadership. It signals: figure it out on your own, or face the consequences.


The Fallout

When things inevitably go wrong—and they will—the blame lands squarely on you. The broken systems, incomplete processes, and neglected documentation remain invisible. You’re left carrying the stress, the guilt, and the burnout.

This isn’t just inefficient. It’s a systemic failure that ruins careers, drives away talent, and weakens organizations.


The Fix: Stop Blaming People. Start Fixing Systems.

We’ve got to stop gaslighting entry-level IT professionals and start fixing the environments we throw them into.


That means:

  • Modernizing documentation—and making it actually usable.

  • Building real onboarding programs, not “watch this person for a day and good luck.”

  • Encouraging mentorship, not gatekeeping.

  • Giving people access, time, and psychological safety to learn without fear of being ridiculed or reprimanded.


Supporting entry-level staff isn’t a favor—it’s a necessity. Burned-out newcomers don’t become strong contributors. They quit. Or worse, they stay and internalize the dysfunction.


Final Word: The Blame Game Stops Here

The system isn’t broken because of entry-level workers—it’s broken because leadership let it rot. We’ve normalized dysfunction and turned it into a loyalty test: survive the chaos, or don’t come back. That’s not a strategy. That’s neglect.


Too often, companies hire eager talent and hand them a dumpster fire, then act surprised when things go wrong. Stop blaming new hires for the mess they inherited. If your documentation is outdated, your tools are obsolete, and your training is nonexistent—you’re setting people up to fail.


If we want a future in tech that isn’t held together by burnout and duct tape, we need to invest in people, clean up our workflows, and stop pretending survival is a qualification.

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